The fact that it's May already has me feeling a bit anxious and reflective. This specific time of year always makes me think about the rapid passage of time - even more so than my birthday or New Year's Eve. Maybe it's because I realize that the year is almost half over, even though it feels like it's barely started. Maybe it's because the flowers are blooming while I remain in a bud. Maybe it's because big changes always seem to happen in the spring (and fall).
Whatever the reason, I'm more focused on trying to get my life together than I've been in months, if not years. I feel the pressure. I feel the burn. And I wish I could say I feel the passion and motivation, but those two are a bit more fleeting.
All of that said, I think it's good to feel scared and to feel the pressure a little. It means you're able to recognize that something in your life isn't quite right and that you're not making the most of the fleeting amount of time you have. If we're not careful, we'll blink and find ourselves living a small or unsatisfying life a decade from now. We only have so many tomorrows, so many months, so many years.
If you share these slight feelings of May panic and uncertainty, I invite you to ask yourself the following questions with me.
1. How do I feel when I wake up in the morning and before I go to bed at night?
Track your thoughts and emotions for a week or two if necessary.
2. What are my top ten priorities?
Be honest with yourself. I can almost guarantee you have things on that list that shouldn't be there.
3. What makes me happy?
Make room for what makes you happy. MAKE ROOM FOR IT.
4. Am I taking care of myself?
Spoiler alert: My answer to this is a resounding "NOPE." Points for self-awareness?
5. On a scale of one to ten, how strong is my support system?
You can't fight your way through the suckiness of life on your own, no matter what society says. Reach out. Spend time with people who care about and encourage you. Talk about things.
Let's try to end 2016 with a bang.